What to Wear to a Funeral Viewing
A Respectful Guide for Mourners
Funeral viewings are an opportunity for friends and family to say goodbye to their loved one in a more private, intimate setting. Whether you're attending a formal visitation or an informal viewing, it's important to dress respectfully and consider the wishes of the family.
In this blog, we'll explore what to wear to a funeral viewing, tips for appropriate attire for men, women, and children, and what to avoid.
What Is a Funeral Viewing?
A funeral viewing, also known as a visitation, is a scheduled time before the funeral service where mourners can see the deceased, offer condolences to the family, and reflect. It's typically less formal than the service itself, but still a moment that calls for modesty and respect.
Why Does Funeral Attire Matter?
Your appearance reflects the respect you hold for the deceased and their loved ones. Dressing appropriately helps create a peaceful, dignified environment for others who are grieving.
What Should Men Wear to a Funeral Viewing?
- Dark, muted colours such as black, navy, or grey
- A collared shirt with smart trousers or a suit
- Polished, closed-toe shoes
- Optional tie or blazer depending on formality
- Keep accessories minimal
What Should Women Wear?
- Conservative dresses, skirts or trousers in dark or neutral tones
- Blouses or tops that cover the shoulders and are not low-cut
- Low or mid-heeled shoes (avoid flashy styles)
- Subtle jewellery and minimal makeup
- A cardigan or blazer if needed
Funeral Attire for Children
- Boys: dark trousers, shirt or polo, and smart shoes
- Girls: plain dress, blouse with skirt or trousers, and simple shoes
- Bright patterns or characters should be avoided, but comfort is key
- A neat, tidy appearance is appreciated
Can You Wear Colour to a Funeral Viewing?
While traditional expectations lean towards dark, sombre clothing, more families are choosing to celebrate their loved one’s life with colour. If you're unsure:
- Check the family’s wishes (sometimes requests are included in the announcement)
- When in doubt, stick with dark, neutral tones
What Not to Wear to a Funeral Viewing
- Casual clothes like ripped jeans, shorts, or t-shirts
- Athletic wear or trainers
- Bright colours or flashy prints unless requested
- Revealing or tight-fitting outfits
- Hats indoors (unless for religious reasons)
Final Thoughts
The most important thing is to show your respect and presence. At Stephen M Godber Funeral Directors, we understand that attending a funeral or viewing can be an emotional experience. If you’re unsure about what’s appropriate to wear or how to attend, we’re always here to support you with compassionate advice.
FAQs
Do I have to wear black to a funeral viewing?
Not always. Black is traditional, but other dark, respectful colours like navy or grey are also acceptable.
What if I don't own formal clothes?
Aim for neat, clean, and modest. A plain shirt or blouse with dark trousers or skirt can be enough if worn respectfully.
Can I wear jeans to a funeral viewing?
Only if they are dark, plain, and neat – but formal trousers are preferred.
What if the viewing is at a private home?
You can usually dress more casually, but still modestly and respectfully.
