A Guide to Funeral Costs and Planning Ahead
Arranging a funeral can feel overwhelming, both emotionally and financially. One of the most common questions families ask is: “How much does a funeral cost?” The answer depends on the type of funeral you choose, where you live, and the personal touches you’d like to include.
At Stephen M. Godber Funeral Directors, we believe that being open about funeral costs helps families make informed choices and feel reassured that their loved one will receive a dignified farewell. This guide explains the key costs involved, as well as how planning ahead can ease the burden on your family.
What Are the Main Funeral Costs?
Funeral costs in the UK are typically divided into two categories: funeral director’s fees and third-party (or disbursement) costs.
1. Funeral Director’s Fees
These cover the professional services involved in arranging the funeral, such as:
- Collecting and caring for your loved one
- Providing a coffin or casket
- Organising the service, transport, and staff
- Support and guidance with paperwork and arrangements
2. Third-Party Costs (Disbursements)
These are payments made on your behalf to others, which may include:
- Crematorium or burial fees
- Church or officiant fees
- Doctors’ fees (for cremation paperwork)
- Flowers, service sheets, or music
3. Optional Extras
Many families also choose personal touches, such as:
- Memorials or headstones
- Catering for a wake or reception
- Special vehicles or alternative coffins
- Keepsakes or ashes caskets
Average Funeral Costs in the UK
According to national figures, the average cost of a basic funeral in the UK is around £4,000–£5,000 (though this varies by region and funeral type).
- Cremation is generally less expensive than burial.
- Direct cremation (a simple, unattended cremation) is usually the most affordable option.
- Burials often cost more due to cemetery fees and ongoing grave maintenance.
At Stephen M. Godber Funeral Directors, we provide a clear and transparent price list so you know exactly what is included.

The Importance of Planning Ahead
Thinking about your own funeral may not be easy, but planning ahead can bring peace of mind to you and your family.
Benefits of Planning Ahead:
- Financial security: Lock in today’s prices with a pre-paid funeral plan.
- Personal choice: Decide the type of funeral you would like, from music to readings.
- Less stress for family: Loved ones won’t have to make difficult decisions during a time of grief.
- Flexibility: Plans can be tailored to suit your wishes and budget.
Funeral Plans with Stephen M. Godber
We offer pre-paid funeral plans that allow you to spread the cost and protect against rising funeral expenses. Our plans are flexible, transparent, and tailored to your needs, giving you and your family reassurance for the future.
Helping You Make Informed Choices
Funerals are deeply personal, and costs will depend on the type of service you want for yourself or your loved one. At Stephen M. Godber Funeral Directors, we are here to explain every option clearly, helping you make choices that feel right for your family and your budget.
If you’d like to discuss funeral costs or pre-paid funeral plans, please contact Stephen M. Godber Funeral Directors. Our caring and experienced team is here to guide you with compassion and clarity.